Supporting loved ones during difficult times: BEFORE passing (1)

Witnessing the challenges and decline of our loved ones can be exceptionally tough. Throughout life’s ups and downs, it’s crucial to acknowledge the stress and obstacles this may present. As part of comprehensive care, ensure that the minister is aware of your loved one’s situation. The minister can offer spiritual guidance and support by visiting. Remember to contact the minister not only during challenging times but also when things are relatively stable. Even if your loved ones are relocated to a different place, like a neighboring island or the mainland, it’s important to keep the minister updated. Within the Hongwanji network, there is a commitment to providing spiritual support for your loved ones.

When the minister visits your loved one and occasionally communicates with the family, if the time of passing is near, a bedside service can be arranged with the family. This is an opportunity for the family to find solace in the fact that their loved one is under the compassionate care of Amida Buddha. It also allows the family to convey their gratitude to their loved one and provide comfort during a challenging time of fear and suffering. In case the minister is not aware of your loved ones’ condition, please contact the minister before the passing, so the minister can offer bedside services. Even after passing, please do not hesitate to contact the minister at any time, whether it’s late at night or early in the morning. The minister is accessible around the clock to assist you during this difficult time.

Talking about end-of-life care and funeral preferences with family members enables decisions to be made in alignment with their desires, demonstrating respect and preventing regrets. While acknowledging that such conversations can be challenging and uncomfortable, it ultimately benefits both the family and the individual preparing for the future.

In the embrace of Amida, we transition not into death but into birth in the Pure Land through the Primal Vow of Amida Buddha. Let us encounter and let us be affirmed today, here and now.